“What did you do at school today?”

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“What did you do at school today?”

At the end of each school day, you may have lots of questions for your child about their day, but we know it can sometimes be challenging to get an answer! Here are some things to keep in mind when you’re talking to your child about school.

  • Try to ask open-ended questions to keep a conversation going. If you ask your child questions that can be answered with one word (yes, no, a name), then you’ll probably get a one-word response.
  • Often children are not specific, so you have to ask for specific information when you want it.
  • Avoiding emotion-packed words (happy, sad, mean) can help the conversation go on longer.
  • Asking positive questions gives your child a chance to express concerns. Negative questions tend to stop a conversation.

Questions that may be helpful to ask your child:

  • Where do you play the most at break? At lunch?
  • Who did you sit with to eat lunch today?
  • Tell me something good that happened today.
  • If I called your teacher tonight, what would she tell me about you?
  • How did you help somebody today?
  • How did somebody help you today?
  • Tell me one thing that you learned today.
  • When were you the happiest today?
  • What games did you play at recess?
  • What was the funniest thing that happened today?
  • Did anyone do anything super nice for you?
  • What was the nicest thing you did for someone else?
  • Who made you smile today?